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I want to leave my husband of 7 years & take the kids with me

Dear Bukky,
For some seven years now that I have been married, I
have been dealing with cheating issues, emotional
torture, stinginess, lack of good sex (lasts only five
minutes) etc.
We have two kids together. It was a love marriage but
our marriage was only a year plus when he developed
schizophrenia.
As a matter of fact, I have been enduring and now I’m
tired.
I have cheated on him too because I couldn’t manage
anymore and now I have no feelings for him
whatsoever.
I want to seek for divorce and have the custody of the
kids.
_____________
Dear reader,
I actually commend you for deciding to leave, seeing
that the marriage no longer holds any sort of happiness
for you.
I understand how difficult it must be but I also think
it’s admirable to see the courage it took you to decide
on this.
Staying in a bad marriage that no longer holds any
happiness » isn’t too good, not even for the kids »
and if that's what your marriage has finally come to
and it's what you feel is the best thing for you, please
go ahead.
Having said that, there’s only one thing to do – enlist
the services of a lawyer. A credible one who comes
with referrals of having experience with getting
favourable judgement for women at divorce
proceedings.
Good luck and I hope you rediscover happiness.
_____________
Do you want to talk about your love life, marriage or
family issues?
Do you have burning questions that you would love to
get answers to?
Just send a mail to relationships@pulse.ng and I'll
provide the most honest answers to them
anonymously.
Note; the chances of getting a quick response reduces
if the text in your email has a lot of abbreviations. So,
please write as properly as possible.
So, why not send that mail today and let's talk about
it?
A problem shared is a problem half-solved!

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